Emma has always been a graceful and stylish woman. I was immediately impressed by her sense of style when I first met her; she was able to make a statement in any setting by skillfully fusing classics and trends.
For her, it was more than simply clothing; it was about creativity, self-expression, and a strong love of beauty. Even though Emma has held a number of different positions over the years, she has always wanted to work in retail, particularly in the fashion industry. I firmly believed in her, and she knew it was her calling.
Emma saw a “Now Hiring” sign outside a well-known lingerie boutique one afternoon while we were strolling across the city. She was overjoyed. The chance she had been waiting for was finally here. The idea of working in a store that specialized in lingerie sounded like the ideal fit for her, who had always enjoyed it.
She made the snap decision to go inside and ask about the job. At the time, I didn’t give it much thought. I was confident Emma would have no trouble finding employment because she had that charisma that attracted attention.
However, the events that transpired within that store completely altered my worldview.
A young store clerk behind the counter inspected Emma as soon as she entered, a little smirk twisting the corners of her lips. The assistant spoke up without much hesitation, her tone brimming with condescension:
“Look, sweetie, you don’t seem attractive enough for this position. NOT A CHANCE. Please don’t even try.
Emma was surprised. The words pierced her like a razor as she stood motionless. She was treated cruelly when she had anticipated a warm welcome and perhaps a few inquiries about her experience. In addition to being cruel, the assistant’s termination was needless. She didn’t even give Emma a chance to speak or even glance at her resume.
Emma was a complete mess by the time she got home. She was seated on the couch with tears streaming down her cheeks when I found her. I was initially baffled by what had transpired. I had witnessed her so optimistic and thrilled about the possibility of starting a new job. Then, in an instance, a stranger’s words had destroyed her.
I was enraged to see my wife in suffering. Nobody had the right to make her feel less than who she was, certainly not a haughty store clerk. Emma was exceptional, not merely “pretty enough” for any position. I made the decision to take action at that same moment.
I got in touch with my friend Mike, who was a fashion industry talent scout. I knew Mike could be of assistance and that he would see the gravity of the situation. He agreed to help me teach the assistant a lesson in humility when I told him what had happened. We devised a strategy that would not only provide Emma with the confidence boost she required, but also demonstrate to the assistant that her naive assessment was wholly incorrect.
I pretended to be a customer and made my way back to the store. I browsed the aisles, examining the lingerie as if I were buying a present. Naturally, the assistant saw me right away. Eager to sell, she straightened up. Her tone had changed from disdainful to eagerly professional, and she was suddenly overtly pleasant and lovely. In an attempt to sell me anything she could, she inquired if I needed assistance.
I pretended to consider my options and asked her a few questions as I played along. I eventually “stepped out” to phone someone. I called Mike as scheduled and invited him over. He was nearby, and it didn’t take him long to get there.
With the assurance and charisma of someone who belonged in the world of high fashion, Mike walked inside the boutique. He quickly smiled as he introduced himself and headed straight for the assistant.
“I’m Mike Thompson,” he introduced himself. “I’m a talent scout and I work in fashion. I’ve been observing you, and I believe you have the potential to be something.”
The assistant’s face brightened as her entire focus was drawn in. Although she was unaware of Mike’s identity, the prospect of being “discovered” was just too alluring to pass up. She started flattering him, talking excitedly about her goals, her profession, and anything else she believed he would find interesting.
Mike listened courteously, evaluating her in a near-clinical manner. A few seconds later, he delivered the devastating blow with a smile and a shake of his head.
“You know,” he remarked, “you don’t seem to fit the profile we’re searching for at all. You simply don’t look like what we need, really. I apologize.
The helper blinked, clearly startled. She laughed nervously, trying to
hide her bewilderment, but Mike persisted.
“Now, this guy here,” Mike added, nodding at me. “I believe this person has a lot of promise. He has a face that could start a thousand campaigns, so you should look him over carefully.”
The assistant looked at me, her face vacillating between shame and shock. Mike smiled kindly as he turned back to face me. Additionally, do you know who I believe would be ideal for the campaign? Your spouse. Emma. Her appearance is ideal for our brand.
The assistant couldn’t speak. Although Emma was unaware of the situation, I could see the assistant’s bewilderment. She shifted back into customer service mentality in an attempt to hide her uneasiness, but it was too late. The damage was already done.
In order to discuss Emma’s potential modeling for one of the brands he represented, Mike arranged a casual meeting for them later that day. Emma gained a great deal of confidence from the experience, even if she ultimately opted not to pursue modeling. In the past, she had often questioned her ability to “fit in” with the fashion industry. She now saw, however, that the assistant’s harsh remarks were motivated only by insecurity and a lack of discernment.
Not only did Emma leave that event feeling a little more confident, but she also left feeling like she was valued more than ever.
Emma stopped a week later when we were passing the lingerie shop. She turned to me and grinned, her head held high.
“Look,” she said. “I can feel good about myself without that job. I’m more valuable than that.
Knowing that sometimes the finest retaliation doesn’t involve tearing someone else down, we both grinned. It’s about uplifting the person you care about, demonstrating their actual worth, and letting them know that only they can determine their own value.
And that was ultimately the sweetest triumph.